Respect, empathy, understanding, tolerance and acceptance of another person is the foundation. The ground you walk on. Without it, you collapse slowly and lose the meaning of life. It is obvious that this is difficult. It takes effort. Dedication. Overall, this is a fucking tough task, because we are robbed of money, living energy, or anything else what’s value at almost every step. This is the principle of life. What is difficult is the most valuable.
Most of them focus on the cash, cars, big houses, nice clothes or trinkets. These are the details. Cool, but without a foundation, they don’t matter in any meaning. They will slowly plunge you into the abyss. First, we build the foundation, then the walls, and only paintings on these walls. Not the other way around. In the beginning there is a human. Then the environment and life in general. Finally, matter and pleasures from it.
We take the first step without expecting anything in return. Later we try to be fairly transparent, but unfortunately we give a little more than we take, because most of people are taking and sometimes needy like children. And when we do not forget about what is most important – we can possess. Only in that way possession will not get lost us.
We don’t have to worry about material bases. They will always be. It is when, in the case you contact another person and you think about their needs, not your own. If you want to help at the beginning. Not to used her/him. You are open and empathetic. There will always be those who will used you. There will always be those who will help you.
Joy comes by itself. Happiness will appear automatically. Metaphorically speaking, then you have a home where you feel cozy and safe. And you’re not running naked with money somewhere in the cloud. All the time thinking about whether nobody stole it from you. The thief always thinks from his own perspective.
I guess we already know what is the most important and what is not important. A house is built from the foundations, not from buying a car. I am talking about a real home, about it in head and heart. About the moral backbone. Not about the material one.
It took me 45 years to build the foundations. Now it’s easy. The smile on my face does not disappear. Joy is the current state. Peace of mind. No worries about tomorrow.
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