Yes, I think that as a consequence we get what we want, not what we deserve.
This is a fundamental difference. We have a world of rights, not obligations. It is only up to us what we get from the world and others. Some people will think it’s actually fun and a bit unfair, but is it really that good for everyone?
A desire may become a problem for some. Whoever wants money, a house, a car, sex, and is looking at the world in such categories. He or she only sees objects that will satisfy their senses, their desire. They only see people as objects of their desire and that’s what they get… people who are objects and in these categories they also look at them vice versa. Such a person understands that the world’s resources are limited and not enough for everyone, so he fights for these resources. He believes that what is valuable cannot be for free. He/she has to try or test everything. To be in control of everything. Whatever you deserve, earn or risk. The enchanted world of the karmic cycle. He wants it, he gets it.
On the other hand, you can look at the other person as a person who needs help, maybe support, maybe a hug or a good word. Something really valuable that we can give in an unlimited amount 🙂
It’s not about resources that satisfy someone’s desire. Lust is the proverbial devil that persuades, draws in, and limits. There is no devil other than ourselves. We create this world for ourselves, only by our will. Either you want rights or obligations. The choice is only yours. Are you happy, surrounding yourself with happy people. Do you fill your world with people and life or with objects. Do you tense up and fight for resources for your devil, that is, lust and greed, surrounding yourself with dead matter. Think if you will still be alive if you only see dead matter and not other people ??
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